Continuing on the subject of having difficulty in giving away responsibility for myself (again, not meaning not having any myself) i have come to the realization that not only is it good for my submission, it's good for me over all.
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I'll tell you why. The reason i've gotten to this point, i think, is because i have gotten back in touch with my submission -because to be quite frank it wasn't all that present for a while. And getting back in touch with my submission has made me more at peace, more harmonious and more content. Add to that the fact that my health is better and i have made great progress with my mental health issues, and you have the result of a happy submissive. No, i left out one key component there, and that is Sir's Dominance. Which is vital to the equation, and His "stepping up" has made a great difference. I have had great difficulties in admitting that His Dominance is one of the key components to my submission. It has felt like putting the responsibility for it on Him. But i am coming to peace with that. It doesn't feel "right" but i'm starting to accept it for a fact. Because how could it not be? Just like i am the one, or at least the main one, that influences my daughter and her behaviour, so is Sir with mine. There's no way around it. And i think He actually likes it. Wants it. Needs it even.
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the other post stumblingchi wrote a comment saying "
....Maybe because we are submissive, it's hard to understand the flip side of it, the fact that taking responsibility for us feeds their dominance, makes them stronger, and is not only a desire of theirs, but even a need for a dominant man?"
Thank you chi for getting me thinking!
And thank you Sir for helping me to get where i am right now! Namely in a calm and submissive frame of mind. And happy, let's not forget HAPPY! =)
Thank you Sir, i love you <3
With love,
5 comments:
Love you too melinda. Now Calm and submissive where did I hear that before???
September 2, 2012 at 10:36 PMI think you know :P
Go Ceasar! ;)
September 2, 2012 at 10:39 PM:-))
September 2, 2012 at 10:40 PMThats my girl
I'm glad you;re in a better place! Don't you think that while they do stand apart, and you do need to take responsibility for your own part, in many ways his dominance and your submission are like two sides of the same coin? One cannot be complete without the other. That's been my experience. Sara
September 3, 2012 at 2:46 PMSara: Yes, i think that while i will always be submissive, with Him i can live it not just be it, if you see what i mean? And yes, i think we feed off of each other. I think the more we get from the opposite side of the coin the more we find in ourselves.
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