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Sunday, January 9, 2011


I got very excited last night. In a conversation with Master the subject of collars came up. I'd asked permission to wear a "fake" collar to BDSM-events, just to show my status up-front. He said He considered me collared the moment He accepted me as His sub.

How have you other Doms looked at this? When do you consider a sub collared? Does the physical collar need to exist and be applied, or is it the decision to accept the person's submission that is the defining moment? Particularly if the relationship is of an online / LDR character where, of natural reasons, the act of the collaring is a bit trickier.

How do you subs look at it? Would be very interesting to see if there's a difference in opinion between Doms and subs on this matter.

What is your personal view on this?With love,


lil said...

I think that the decision of acceptance is the key moment. Though the physical follow through of wearing the actual collar is something in and of itself. An extension and expression of the original decision perhaps.

January 11, 2011 at 6:16 PM
NewToThisLife07 said...

Thank you lil for your response =)Yes I think you're right. It's such a strong symbolism in it!

January 13, 2011 at 3:07 AM
MM said...

Welcome to the world of submissiveness, hope you'll enjoy the ride. And congrats :-)

Let's consider the fact that it is time to write a new "inlägg" ;-)

January 13, 2011 at 1:53 PM
NewToThisLife07 said...

Thank you! And I was sitting writing one at the very time of this comment posting -so it'll soon be up ;)

January 13, 2011 at 2:11 PM

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