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Saturday, March 17, 2012

some more huffing and pouting

Yeah i've done it again!
Dunno what's gotten into me lately!

Well, you already know i'm incapable of lying and that i am brutally honest, what you may not know is that i also go into great details about things.

I'm getting a haircut - waaaaaay overdue! Like 6 months overdue. I have no real rule about this apart from a few specifications: No major changes without checking with Him first and then there are a few no-no's like shaving my head in such (yeah, not gonna happen! Not completely anyways =P)
So, i coloured my hair today. It's black as usual. Sir asked how it looked like and He asked for a pic. I told Him about really needing a haircut and that i'm booking one next week, and asked i could wait with the picture till then (my hair really is HORRID just now!), He gave me permission to wait.

Now this is where the conversation should've ended!
But no not melinda.
melinda asks if there's something she's not allowed to do. With the hair having grown so much there is a wider scope for change than normal. So, OK, that was a valid question. But i didn't stop there either. We started googling for pictures. I even collected some and emailed them to Sir while we were looking at stuff. Bad, bad, bad idea!

It ended up with Sir not liking my favourite choice!

The cause of polemics
Did i take it laying down? Nah not quite.....
We got into polemics about it. Although i at several points said OK Sir, i can see i'm fighting a losing battle here.... OK then Sir.... i still kept coming back to it. I was in a real huff over having my favourite ruled out as ugly, or at the very least not nice. Now usually i might huff a bit in silence but let it go. This time i just couldn't, i kept questioning His decision -His opinion even! I guess i was disappointed. That is no excuse though -i shouldn't behave like that regardless.
Usually Sir don't notice how much of a huff i'm in, because i don't make it that transparent -and let's face it! Lack of body language is the second biggest disadvantage of being in a LDR.
Anyways, for some reason i didn't hold back this time. It got to the point that Sir even asked me if i was in a huff.

This is a bit how our conversation went:

B:  are you in a huff?

m:  yes {angel smiley}

B:   I notice

m:  sorry Sir

This is where i should've just let it go!
The continuation of that last comment is cheeky even for my standards.
Out of self-preservation i will not post it here  =P

m:   (*curses herself for always being so specific in her questions*)

B:  {Hug smiley}

m:   *huffs* {Hug smiley}

B:   {Big grin smiley} I will spank you melinda.

m:   i probably deserve it Sir, but at least i'm honest about it

B:   you deserve it if you continue sulking

m:  ok, so to save my ass maybe we could change the subject? {Big grin smiley}

B:  now that is clever

m:  {nerd smiley}

He proceeded with asking if we should move on to discussing frames for glasses -luckily enough i already have them!  =P

Then Sir did what He does best -He brings me back.  *smiles*

B:  {Kiss smiley}

come here melinda and give me a hug!!

m:  {Hug smiley} *crawls into Sir's arms and purrs*
i'm sorry Sir.

B:   that is better
{Vice grip hug}

Now maybe some of you think Sir is soft for not punishing me for this. He's not. He does however know how His subbie works: she needs to be coaxed not forced (well, unless we are moving on to the subject of SEX  =P).

We went back to chatting like normal for a little while, but it was coming up for 1am so we soon said good night. And i apologized, again, for being childish and huffing and pouting.

m:  sleep tight Sir
and Sir?

B:  ty and you melinda

m:   i'm sorry fur huffing
just got disappointed  {embarrassed smiley}

B:   silly girl

Then we said I love you, in unison (we do that a lot! Say the same thins at he same time) and good night.
I have the evening off tomorrow for a girls night of Breaking Dawn and cheese and wine *grins*
I'll miss Brutus  -Sir i love You!

And i'm sorry for being so childish as of late -i dunno what's gotten into me!

I know You will already have moved on and forgotten about it Sir,
I just want You to know i am sorry and will try harder.

With love,


Elder said...

Yes melinda I have moved on. And it should weigh so heavy on you as well. I was going to write about it as well, but from a different angle. I should have time today.
Have a nice evening tonight melinda with your friend terror.

Oh by the way: I see you have the "offending" hair cut up again. My opinion has not changed. She looks like a gay boy, not my cup of tea. (And it has nothing to do with the model, she would look gorgeous if only she had a nice haircut).

March 17, 2012 at 11:13 AM
Elder said...

"should NOT weigh so heavy", was supposed to be in the second sentence of my first comment.

By the way now that I am forced to write an other comment to correct this (because googol does not allow editing once posted mails for a short while, a function that exists on forum software) I want to take the opportunity to say how much I hate this new word verification Google uses. It is anal, pedantic, and there are no fun words any more as there where in the past. With respect to melinda's blog template there is also an issue: Get it wrong once, and you will get a new word combination as it normal. But then you will not get the publish button any more. The reason is that melinda has a non standard template, adopted by her self for this blog (clever girl). How ever it is not supported so minor bugs appear as blogger evolves.
The work around is to hit "edit" if you can not get a "publish" button. Once back in edit mode the publish button reappears and the conflict is overcome. Thank God for small favours you will not be pestered again with a new word verification unless you made an other mistake.

March 17, 2012 at 11:26 AM
melinda Sweetgirl said...

does it not come up with a scroll bar on the right when you can't see the publish button?

March 17, 2012 at 11:29 AM
Elder said...

no, once you have mistaken the word verification it does not scroll any more. OK there we go with the F***** word verification again.

March 17, 2012 at 4:53 PM
kiwigirliegirl said...

We can all get pouty and sulky and bratty at times my friend. I was the same this morning and hence i think Im in trouble tonight when i get home (on top of possible no loss of weight grr)...we will see. I think Elder handled you extremely well. Hope you are feeling better now
hugs kiwi xxx

March 20, 2012 at 4:16 AM
Terror said...

Now i Will say à thing My mum always Said to me and sinul translate it please "allt klär en skönhet" so cut your hair or not cut your hair, or even do the pony tail you can now ;) am convinced That just that hair cut you like you Will fit in it ;) lol fit lol again... Sorry elder ;) puss sunil

March 20, 2012 at 7:58 PM
melinda Sweetgirl said...

TERROR!!!!! <3

OK, translation: "Anything fits a beauty"

*LOL* are you drunk my dear friend? =P

Puss puss my dear friend =)

March 20, 2012 at 8:03 PM
Elder said...

Terror, I even suggested to melinda to keep a pony tail, or a small tail at the back but no she told me that was 80's or 90's I don't remember. In any case she agreed it could be so far out it is in, but left it at that. So your pony tail idea "ain't gonna happen".

PS, don't feel sorry for me Terror, in the end I will get what I want to the extend I want :-P

March 21, 2012 at 7:17 AM

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