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Tuesday, February 7, 2012

Who's Responsible?

I just read a really great post by aisha, it's about how you are the one responsible for your own health. Sure your Dom influences it, but you are the one responsible for it -ultimately no one else can be!

It is often a big misconception that when you give yourself over to a Dom you put everything in his hands, even your own well being. You are to do anything that he asks because he would never do anything that would harm you. This is naive thinking -which is very common in newbies, especially during the sub-frenzy period. Of course he won't do anything to willfully harm you (one would hope!) but when it comes down to it you are the only one who can judge this accurately (and even we get it wrong!). We are responsible for ourselves and our well being, both for our own sake as well as for his.

I'm gonna stop here because aisha has written it so well i'd much rather you run over to her and read it!
It is a very very good post, with a message worth remembering.

So please head on over there!

With love,


kiwigirliegirl said...

OK, ill pop on over and have a read, sounds like its a good post :)
love and hugs kiwi xxx

February 8, 2012 at 1:17 AM
aisha said...

Gosh, thanks for the shout-out! i'm glad it resonated with you.

i'll look forward to reading more of your blog!


February 8, 2012 at 2:37 AM

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