I just read a really great post by aisha, it's about how you are the one responsible for your own health. Sure your Dom influences it, but you are the one responsible for it -ultimately no one else can be!
It is often a big misconception that when you give yourself over to a Dom you put everything in his hands, even
your own well being. You are to do anything that he asks because he would never do anything that would harm you. This is naive thinking -which is very common in newbies, especially during the sub-frenzy period. Of course he won't do anything to willfully harm you (
one would hope!) but when it comes down to it
you are the
only one who can judge this accurately (
and even we get it wrong!).
We are responsible for ourselves and our well being, both for our own sake
as well as for his.
I'm gonna stop here because
aisha has written it so well i'd much rather you run over to her and read it!
It is a very very good post, with a message worth remembering.
So please head on over
there!
With love,
2 comments:
OK, ill pop on over and have a read, sounds like its a good post :)
February 8, 2012 at 1:17 AMlove and hugs kiwi xxx
Gosh, thanks for the shout-out! i'm glad it resonated with you.
February 8, 2012 at 2:37 AMi'll look forward to reading more of your blog!
aisha
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